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Writer's pictureThư Phạm (Helen)

Deep connections: Treasure of my life

Updated: Jun 7

I always love spending time with close people with whom I can deeply share my thoughts and build deep connections. Every time I’m with them, I discover more about myself and get more energy to move on in my journey. We may have many friends in life, but we really need genuine people like that. They are deep connections. They can be our mom, dad, friend, boyfriend, girlfriend, etc.


1, What is a deep connection?

For me, a deep connection is a relationship in which we can be ourselves when we spend time together. We can talk about our problems and happiness with no judgment. We count on and believe in each other. There are safe zones between us.


2, We are too busy, and we can’t spend time with everyone

When we grow up, we are too busy with our lives. Family - Work - Life - Friends - Love and other things. I always feel like we don’t have enough time to live this life. I agree that we still need other relationships. But I firmly believe that If we have very little spare time, let’s spend this time with the right people.


3, A deep connection is valuable

Having a deep connection is helpful. Sometimes, we change our lives because a true friend gives us valuable advice from the bottom of her heart. Occasionally, our boyfriends or girlfriends believe more in themselves and continue to follow their dream because of our support. A deep connection is a relationship that creates value for each other.


I know that we are the ones who take control of our lives. We have to cope with obstacles and move on. We have to solve our problems. But, we are human beings and have emotions. Sometimes, we need help and advice; sometimes, we love sharing our happiness with our beloved people. That makes our lives more meaningful.


I always feel lucky to have people I can count on by my side. They are the great gifts that God gives me. From time to time, when I have a bad day, I don’t need all people around the world to surround me. I need one person, someone who really cares about me and listen to me unconditionally. That is the deep connection I always need and appreciate. And I know that I’m not alone.

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